Generated by All in One SEO v5.0.1.1, this is an llms.txt file, used by LLMs to index the site. # DJ Eshelman Author to Readers. Speaker to Hearers. Coach to Leaders. ## Sitemaps - [XML Sitemap](https://djeshelman.com/sitemap.xml): Contains all public & indexable URLs for this website. ## Posts - [Blog](https://djeshelman.com/blog/) - [Am I The Only One?](https://djeshelman.com/am-i-the-only-one/) - Being a "SoloPreneur" or Digital Entrepreneur can be lonely. At least, it has been for me. Understanding why is the key to fixing it. Here's a song and an article! - [In Memoriam: Robert "Bob" Eshelman](https://djeshelman.com/in-memoriam-robert-eshelman/) - Obituary for Robert C Eshelman of Penrose, CO - [Reflecting on 9-11: 20 years later](https://djeshelman.com/reflecting-on-9-11-20-years-later/) - On the 20th anniversary of 9/11 - I reflect on what it was like, and how my life changed as a result. - [How to Finally Finish All of Those Projects You've Started](https://djeshelman.com/finish-projects/) - The Slothful Person is good enough at starting, but not finishing. Maybe it is a great idea. Maybe it is something that they propose that gets started but they move on to something else. Maybe it is something they get 80% done and "run out of steam." They hunt, kill, but don't finish the process. Their work rots because of that one final step not taken. Maybe they got discouraged. If this is you - some ancient wisdom has you covered - [What To Do When Your Spouse Doesn't Support You](https://djeshelman.com/what-to-do-when-your-spouse-doesnt-support-you/) - So what do you do when your spouse isn't supportive of your entrepreneurial efforts? James Wedmore had a great podcast that inspired me to expand the thoughts! - [Reports of my Death are Highly Exaggerated](https://djeshelman.com/reports-of-my-death-are-highly-exaggerated/) - I'm still alive! But I'm focused on making IT (as in Information Technology) Better than I Found it! I'm in the process of creating a membership site for Citrix Professionals (If that's you, I highly suggest you go to https://ctxpro.com/membership for more information!) Once I get this launched and running smoothly I do have some - [Movie Review: Paul, Apostle of Christ](https://djeshelman.com/paulmovie/) - Recently I had the pleasure of attending a pre-screening of Paul, Apostle of Christ. Since the movie comes out in a month (March 23rd) I thought I'd give a review and some points to ponder. {Edit- I actually went back to see the movie on April 3rd and really enjoyed seeing it a second time!} - [7 Ways To Stop Hurting Your Pastor's Spouse](https://djeshelman.com/stop-hurting-your-pastors-spouse/) - You may not intend to- but you may be hurting your Pastor's Spouse. Sometimes our good intentions put them in bad positions or just generally make them feel unvalued. Here's some tips to help you show how valuable your Pastor's Spouse really is! - [The HEARD Mentality](https://djeshelman.com/heard-mentality/) - Are you being Heard or Herded on Facebook? Get out of the Heard Mentality by understanding why... But more importantly, I have tips to avoid the traps! - [My Last Day at 39](https://djeshelman.com/my-last-day-at-39-2/) - The morning, the last day of being 39 years old in fact, I was reflecting on my 30s and wondering about my 40s. We need a soundtrack for this venture, so feel free to throw on the song that was going thru my head, "More Alive" from Pillar's new album One Love Revolution: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hdi3saYJxHc For - [It Really is Okay to Make New Year’s Resolutions](https://djeshelman.com/no-it-really-is-okay-to-make-new-years-resolutions/) - A common cliché is "Shouldn't you be setting Resolutions year round, not just on New Year's Day?" And the answer is yes. However- I think there's another key that makes this time frame the BEST to be thinking about setting new goals for your personal improvement. - [Finding My Tribe (or Summer Camp for Creatives)](https://djeshelman.com/finding-my-tribe/) - Let's be honest. Writing is not my problem. Writing for a tribe is my problem. Without a connection, I am kind of lost. This last weekend, I attended a conference that has inspired me to change that. - [#TBT Challenger: The Day Courage Died](https://djeshelman.com/challenger/) - You'll never reach the stars if you're constantly looking down- cowering in your cubicle! - [Reading List - August 2016](https://djeshelman.com/reading-list-august-2016/) - What am I reading this month? Find out the books, audiobooks, podcasts and websites I'm reading this month for enjoyment and increasing knowledge! - [Why Speaking Well of Your Spouse Is So Important](https://djeshelman.com/why-speaking-well-of-your-spouse-is-so-important/) - I am unbelievably blessed to have a wife that is so caring for me and so patient. Today we are talking about Michael Hyatt's new blog post on speaking well of your spouse! - [#TTT - TRAVEL Tip Thursday - CLEAR](https://djeshelman.com/airport-security-clear/) - DJ here on Travel Tip Thursday to tell you more about the CLEAR service and why I pay for it... and you may find it worth it as well! ## Pages - [Hello... is it Deej you're looking for?](https://djeshelman.com/) - DJ Eshelman is a "Xenaissance" man. Writer, Speaker, Coach, Consultant, and Podcaster... find what you're looking for here. - [Speaking](https://djeshelman.com/speaking/) - [et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ _builder_version=”4.23.1″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_row column_structure=”3_5,2_5″ _builder_version=”4.23.1″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_column type=”3_5″ _builder_version=”4.23.1″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.23.1″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”]Ready to have D.J. speak at your event, podcast, or video broadcast? That’s great! The next best action is for us to get on a Zoom call for 30 minutes and talk about it! Click the link to automatically find - [Self Publish Your Book - 5 Things You Need to Know](https://djeshelman.com/self-publishing-5-things/) - Yeah, another person talking about Self Publishing. But the thing is, I have done it and it changed everything for me! Here's some key tips. - [About DJEshelman.com](https://djeshelman.com/about/) - The basic goal of this site will be to showcase my professional life and give tips and insights into projects I'm working on in the following categories: Information Technology: XenMaster Speaks: Citrix Technologies, such as XenApp, XenDesktop and all things Xen Virtualization and XenServer Consulting Practical Day-to-Day advice An overall 'what's going on' Travel: Advice ## Categories - [Uncategorized](https://djeshelman.com/category/uncategorized/) - [About DJ](https://djeshelman.com/category/about-dj/) - [Product Reviews](https://djeshelman.com/category/product-reviews/) - [Status Updates](https://djeshelman.com/category/status-updates/) - [Travel](https://djeshelman.com/category/travel/) - [Various Thoughts](https://djeshelman.com/category/various-thoughts/) - [Health](https://djeshelman.com/category/health/) - [Leave It Better](https://djeshelman.com/category/leave-it-better/) - [What I'm Reading](https://djeshelman.com/category/what-im-reading/) - [Faith](https://djeshelman.com/category/faith/) - [Entrepreneurship](https://djeshelman.com/category/entrepreneurship/) ## Tags - [Travel](https://djeshelman.com/tag/travel/) - [personal](https://djeshelman.com/tag/personal/) - [birthday](https://djeshelman.com/tag/birthday/) - [40](https://djeshelman.com/tag/40/) - [39](https://djeshelman.com/tag/39/) - [tbt](https://djeshelman.com/tag/tbt/) - [challenger](https://djeshelman.com/tag/challenger/) - [courage](https://djeshelman.com/tag/courage/) - [CLEAR](https://djeshelman.com/tag/clear/) - [security](https://djeshelman.com/tag/security/) - [fast](https://djeshelman.com/tag/fast/) - [marriage](https://djeshelman.com/tag/marriage/) - [leadership](https://djeshelman.com/tag/leadership/) - [spouse](https://djeshelman.com/tag/spouse/) - [being heard](https://djeshelman.com/tag/being-heard/) - [news](https://djeshelman.com/tag/news/) - [opinions](https://djeshelman.com/tag/opinions/) - [facebook](https://djeshelman.com/tag/facebook/) - [social media](https://djeshelman.com/tag/social-media/) - [reading](https://djeshelman.com/tag/reading/) - [books](https://djeshelman.com/tag/books/) - [audiobooks](https://djeshelman.com/tag/audiobooks/) - [reccomendations](https://djeshelman.com/tag/reccomendations/) - [tribe](https://djeshelman.com/tag/tribe/) - [writing](https://djeshelman.com/tag/writing/) - [conferences](https://djeshelman.com/tag/conferences/) - [self improvement](https://djeshelman.com/tag/self-improvement/) - [new year](https://djeshelman.com/tag/new-year/) - [resolutions](https://djeshelman.com/tag/resolutions/) - [church](https://djeshelman.com/tag/church/) - [pastor](https://djeshelman.com/tag/pastor/) - [pastor's spouse](https://djeshelman.com/tag/pastors-spouse/) - [movie review](https://djeshelman.com/tag/movie-review/) - [paul](https://djeshelman.com/tag/paul/) - [faith](https://djeshelman.com/tag/faith/)